To: Shaunda

 Have you ever woken up truly grateful for someone? Well, that was me this morning. I’m not sure as to why I thought this, but I thought I’d share it with you.

This person I am truly grateful for is one of my best friends. Her name is Shaunda Hill.

We met through mutual friends, years ago. We grew closer and now she is like my sister I’ve never had. She comes to family functions, like hardcore functions. Such as Thanksgiving. So yes, she is my sister.

I guess the reason I am thankful for her most is because she has never hesitated when it has come to our friendship. I can literally count on her for ANYTHING at ANY TIME. And THAT, is hard to find.

Loyalty.

Where I am now, she once was. And I was there to help her out of the dark place she was in. And I can only be so thankful she is there for me during all of this. She tells me like it is and sends massive amounts of encouraging words. She even lets me hug her with my legs wrapped around her. That’s love.

Here’s one paragraph she sent me that sticks in my mind:

“That never stopped your priorities, never. Mother first and foremost as always, as expected. I know you need time, I know you can't stop thinking, or crying or hurting. But I am telling you, you are better than this place you are in. Do not feel this way, I won’t allow you to feel this way. Because you wouldn't allow me too either. I will be here no matter what. Don’t cry, I got you. I’m a phone call away, a text away.

I couldn’t sleep either, thinking of you.”

-SH

That doesn’t even begin to sum up what a true, genuine person she is. We’ve laughed, cried, argued, danced {our asses off}, laughed some more. You name it, we've encountered it together.

I don’t know if and when you will see this, Shaun, but please know I am so thankful God sent me a friend like you. I would be lost if I didn't have you. You truly are such a special friend to me. I hope that you know that and never forget it. I love you.

You may not know this, but I have hope because I see you. Now. You're strong, you let your hurt motivate you and you are more beautiful than ever. Don't ever lose the sight you have because it's leading you to greatness. I know so.

One more thing; thank you.

XO, B