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Well hello there my fellow friends—

...it's been a minute. I am here, I promise. Just living and loving. I was thinking how I need to write more, so here I am.

It begins...

I have always been one to be overly friendly, kind, social, whatever you may perceive it to be. That's me. To an extent where in a relationship, it was frowned upon.

Yes, I said the same thing you're thinking. But why?!

I honestly don't necessarily have the answer, but I think I can break it down some. Not just the reasoning as to why that person felt that way, but also a little insight as to why I am that way.

You see, {I had a mini rant similar to this via Snapchat—follow me: bexrang} I feel nowadays we're so consumed by what others may think of us or overly focused on what it is we "should" be doing.

When in reality, none of that truly matters.

What truly matters is who you are as a whole. Whether that be your passion of a certain hobby, your job or being a Mother. Any and everything counts! You name it, that can be your purpose.

But more importantly, your heart, your soul, your voice, your dignity, that is what means most.

The beauty of it all— you get to choose that! No one else does. Unless YOU let them. Does that make sense?

Because me being who I was was frowned upon I genuinely felt that I should pull back. No joke. And now that I think of it, I tell myself, "why on earth would you do that, Becca?!"

That. Is. Who. You. Are.

Nothing or no one should ever have the capability to take away who you are. That is almost a weakness within yourself {myself} to allow that. And there is nothing worse than giving into a weakness.

If anything, the world needs more people who are willing to be themselves, especially if that means you're a person who is open and willing. You are a gem, baby! Believe me.

I think more times than none we forget that the importance of our existence is to make a difference in the world. You may think, "Oh, I'm no one".

But you couldn't be more wrong.

As much as a smile or simple hello to a stranger really could make or change a person's day. Even more so, you're day. Just knowingi you took that time to just BE YOU. 

It took no effort or money to who be you are. And I had to remind myself that.

I will never stop being friendly or social. This is who God made me to be so I am going to share it as long as he lets me.

Each and everyone of us has something special to share with the world. So I encourage you to do it! Don't let society or anyone let you think otherwise. We are all worth it. We are all beautiful. We are all the same because we all have a heart.

And having heart is the absolute true beauty of life.

XO, B